Meditation on the Most Excellent Way

Love Commands

Remembering this is also what creates relationship and family healing.

Of course, none of us has control over whether or not anyone else lets go of blame and accepts responsibility. But even if it's just you, you can affect a change in your relationships. Just imagine how much easier it would be to stay compassionate with yourself and open to learning, during conflict, if you weren't reactive to being blamed, because you were no longer getting triggered into anger or defensiveness.

Since I've let go of the whole concept of blame, I find it easy to accept responsibility. For me, taking responsibility goes along with learning about myself and about what choices have been loving to myself and others, and which haven't. When blame is out of the picture, it's easy for my love of learning to take over. I love the excitement of learning new things about myself and new things about what's loving!

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